How to Make a Shoebox

What is a Shoebox Gift?

A personally crafted gift that contains a mix of essential everyday items and small luxuries that you or any woman would love!

Before You Get Started...

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GUIDE: Create the Perfect Gift for Her

1. Gift Value — Aim for $50

Pack around $50 worth of new, full-sized products. This helps ensure every woman receives a gift that feels equally thoughtful and special.

Why it matters: When gifts are similar in value, every woman feels equally seen.

2. The Box — Standard Shoebox Size Only

Use a standard shoebox or similar box, no larger than 12" × 7" × 4.75". Remove the lid — we inspect every gift before delivery.

Why it matters: Oversized boxes can't be stacked or stored at shelters, which means some gifts don't make it to the women who need them.

3. A Note of Encouragement — Required

Include a handwritten card or note with a warm, personal message. Leave it unsealed as we inspect all cards before they are delivered.

Not sure what to write? A simple "thinking of you" goes a long way. Sign your first name or leave it anonymous — both are welcome.

4. Daily Essentials

Choose a few self-care staples she can use every day like soap, lotion, a toothbrush, or a hairbrush. Full-sized and new only.

Think of what you'd want to find if you needed a fresh start.

5. Little Luxuries

Add one or two items that feel a little special like nail polish, lip gloss, a cozy pair of socks, or a small journal. These are the items that say: you deserve nice things. 

6. Seasonal Items

Include items for the current season.

Match your extras to the season. For the Holiday Drive: warm accessories like gloves, a scarf, or hand warmers. For warmer months: sunscreen, a hair tie, or a cooling mist. 

Please DO NOT Include...

We receive many Shoeboxes that can't be delivered because they contain items that aren't suitable. Here's what to leave out — and why it matters:

What to Skip

Why

Used items, open packaging, free samples, travel sizes.

She deserves brand-new, full-sized gifts — just like you'd give a friend.

Feminine hygiene products.

These take up valuable space; donate them separately and we'll deliver them in bulk to shelters.

Items requiring a size, skin tone, or hair texture match.

We don't know her specifics. Skip anything that won't work for everyone.

Heavily scented products, items containing alcohol, and sharp objects.

We want to keep gifts safe for everyone.

When in doubt, ask yourself: would I be proud to give this to someone I care about? If yes, it belongs in the box.

Have Questions About Making a Shoebox?

Contact us at info@shoeboxproject.com or read the FAQs for more information.